Forty and Semi-fabulous


I turned forty and my and body literally started to fall apart. It was as if the universe knew I hit the big 40 and said, now you are going to start dying. The next year, my thoughts were consumed with death. Exactly how many years would I be blessed with? Would my body even make it to my fifties?

I spent the majority of my twenties and thirties trying to “find myself” only to realize when I turned forty, I had no idea who I was, or what I wanted my life to be. I was devastated, depressed and in a major funk. I had resigned myself to sitting in a rocking chair and becoming a decrepit, bitter woman. Then my sister sent me this:

At age 23, Tina Fey was working at a YMCA.

At age 23, Oprah was fired from her first reporting job.

At age 24, Stephen King was working as a janitor and living in a trailer.

At age 27, Vincent Van Gogh failed as a missionary and decided to go to art school.

At age 28, J.K. Rowling was a suicidal single parent living on welfare.

At age 28, Wayne Coyne (from The Flaming Lips) was a fry cook.

At age 30, Harrison Ford was a carpenter.

At age 30, Martha Stewart was a stockbroker.

At age 37, Ang Lee was a stay-at-home-dad working odd jobs.

Julia Child released her first cookbook at age 39, and got her own cooking show at age 51.

Vera Wang failed to make the Olympic figure skating team, didn’t get the Editor-in-Chief position at Vogue, and designed her first dress at age 40.

Stan Lee didn’t release his first big comic book until he was 40.

Alan Rickman gave up his graphic design career to pursue acting at age 42.

Samuel L. Jackson didn’t get his first movie role until he was 46.

Morgan Freeman landed his first MAJOR movie role at age 52.

Kathryn Bigelow only reached international success when she made The Hurt Locker at age 57.

Grandma Moses didn’t begin her painting career until age 76.

Louise Bourgeois didn’t become a famous artist until she was 78.

Whatever your dream is, it is not too late to achieve it. You aren’t a failure because you haven’t found fame and fortune by the age of 21. Hell, it’s okay if you don’t even know what your dream is yet. Even if you’re flipping burgers, waiting tables or answering phones today, you never know where you’ll end up tomorrow.

Never tell yourself you’re too old to make it.
Never tell yourself you missed your chance.
Never tell yourself that you aren’t good enough.
You can do it. Whatever it is.

(original post by Drew Forrester)

You are not your age! You are a powerful woman, and at anytime you can become who you desire to be. Embrace the life you want to have, we get one chance in this world, leave your mark so that others may follow your lead.



3 thoughts on “Forty and Semi-fabulous

  1. Jason says:

    This is great and inspirational. I believe you can always accomplish what you put your mind to. It is never to late to pursue your dreams. Also never forget your support team that is always behind you no matter what.

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